byJody said:
Tom - I feel there are plenty of rides geared toward enjoyment where it would be fine to wave and smile: Tweed Ride, all the Year of Yay and Monday night rides.
This ride is to honor those killed or injured while riding a bicycle. Would you wave and smile at a solemn military service? You may be riding next to someone who is riding for Shawn who was hurt badly after being doored on a Saturday afternoon.
Its a time for silence, reflection and respect.
Well OK. I plan to ride and abide.
It's possible my cynicism about it results from over-reaching in my attempts at having my own opinion about this, in my desire to be an independent thinker.)
To answer your question, I probably wouldn't wave and smile at a solemn military service, (or at a service in memory of civilians killed and injured in unnecessary wars, whether US-waged or otherwise.)
I agree; there is a time for silence and reflection. But we don't necessarily have to be solemn to be respectful. We can honor Shawn and others injured or killed by celebrating their lives and by celebrating cycling.
In fact, we'd be likely do better if we seized the opportunity for reaching out to large numbers of people on the big ride, instead of leaving them to wonder amid the clicks of cycling shoes and the sheen of expensive bikes.
To restate, I'd prefer a celebratory ride. In my humble opinion, movements for social change are based more on a joyful pursuit of a vision for a better future than they are based on outrage. The latter, which is more prevalent, is relatively short-lived, generating more heat than light. That's part of the problem with Occupy.
No offense, but being a cyclist, per se, does not register in my mind as a social justice issue--though it could be if the mostly White and well-off people involved with the Ride of Silence did more to connect it with poverty, racism, and other forms of intolerance.
The physical fitness and free-spirited aspects to cycling are, for me, a small part of why it matters, when compared to the social justice and ecological aspects. As someone who cycles just about every day, the Ride of Silence doesn't have that sense of perspective, but instead seems to have a distorted approach to identity politics as it neglects to connect cycling to the bigger picture.
But I plan to show up. Maybe someone before or after the ride will be so kind as to tell me in-person why he or she thinks I'm wrong about this. Thx