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Started 2 years ago by aec33
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cr0m wrote >>

KSquared wrote >>
The concept of the event was a bit perplexing to me, but with this being a young program I am sure there is room for lessons learned, right?
I'm going to ask cr0m to take a look at this. He has alopecia and went through some pretty tough times as a kid and a young adult. Insurance generally doesn't cover things like wigs, which can be expensive. I think the more resources that exist for kids going through this kind of thing, the better. This is an organization to which I would definitely consider donating my time.

Wow! how did a charity event get all of this started! You guys make me laugh. As Ksquared pointed out, I do personally know how bad it can be for kids to look a little different from others (hell, I still look a little freaky). But all the brutal teasing made me stronger and I wouldn't change a damn thing.
I personally think that we teach our kids very unhealthy ways to measure beauty and success in society. However, we can only blame ourselves. I love this organizations purpose and would like to get involved if they need the help. One thing though, as was posted earlier, I don't like blanket statements that imply "all people are pretty". They aren't. I never liked "feel good" statements like that. Face it, some aren't physically attractive and some have really ugly personalities. What's important is teaching that people don't HAVE to look a certain way to have value and that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Anyway, this organization seems cool.

Hi crOm, The blanket statement I made was of my own personal belief that there is usually some redeeming quality (good) in everyone that makes them BeaUtiful "pretty." We'd LOVE to have you get involved with our foundation! That would be VERY nice :)

Posted 2 years ago #
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chrisgillespie wrote >>
There a LOADS of charities that help children. We make our choices on what to support based on things like this auction. Not trying to knock this organization at all, but I think this was a legitimate concern. I don't have the facts about this organization, so I can't make a decision to support or not. However, a willingness to respond to criticism and address concerns should be a part of any non-profit organization -- just because you do things to help children does not mean you cannot be questioned.

I 100% Agree! :)

Posted 2 years ago #
somertimeoh
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From the OP:

Live Date Auction with twenty local celebrities and fitness models will begin at 7:30 p.m.

I can't wait to see who this celebrity accountant is :)

This dead horse has been beaten, but at the end of the day the organization needs to tighten up their mission (I don't think "body-image" awareness accurately describes your goals) and learn that word choice in this type of marketing platform is 90% of the game. A lot of us are involved with local non-profit organizations and understand how important volunteers and community support is. No one has ever said anything bad about your cause, but it might help to take some time to do some searches on this site and others to see the best way to approach the use of social media to advertise your events.

And remember, reacting in a way that turns a negative experience/comment/opinion into a positive one (which didn't happen here) can get you customers, supporters, volunteers, etc. that will be loyal for life.

Posted 2 years ago #
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somertimeoh wrote >>
From the OP:

Live Date Auction with twenty local celebrities and fitness models will begin at 7:30 p.m.

I can't wait to see who this celebrity accountant is :)
This dead horse has been beaten, but at the end of the day the organization needs to tighten up their mission (I don't think "body-image" awareness accurately describes your goals) and learn that word choice in this type of marketing platform is 90% of the game. A lot of us are involved with local non-profit organizations and understand how important volunteers and community support is. No one has ever said anything bad about your cause, but it might help to take some time to do some searches on this site and others to see the best way to approach the use of social media to advertise your events.
And remember, reacting in a way that turns a negative experience/comment/opinion into a positive one (which didn't happen here) can get you customers, supporters, volunteers, etc. that will be loyal for life.

Hi :) I believe we've stayed professional. We do however have some supporters who are VERY passionate about our cause. We are not all "models" associated with this foundation, many of us have dealt with and are dealing with body-image issues! We've done our homework, believe me but we are also still learning. I do know that we are doing some wonderful things for children in our community. I appreciate everyones comments, even the negative ones because we are open to learning and growing from each experience. Thank you.

Posted 2 years ago #
lifeliberty
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somertimeoh wrote >>
This dead horse has been beaten,

But not beaten enough, right Somer?

I think there was some reacting in a way that turned a negative experience/comment/opinion into a positive one. CBIF has been receptive and responsive to negative posts made without being combative. and they even updated the website to reflect changes made.
(though I can't get to the site for some reason now, is it down?)

I think it's still breathing!

Posted 2 years ago #
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somertimeoh wrote >>
From the OP:

Live Date Auction with twenty local celebrities and fitness models will begin at 7:30 p.m.

I can't wait to see who this celebrity accountant is :)
This dead horse has been beaten, but at the end of the day the organization needs to tighten up their mission (I don't think "body-image" awareness accurately describes your goals) and learn that word choice in this type of marketing platform is 90% of the game. A lot of us are involved with local non-profit organizations and understand how important volunteers and community support is. No one has ever said anything bad about your cause, but it might help to take some time to do some searches on this site and others to see the best way to approach the use of social media to advertise your events.
And remember, reacting in a way that turns a negative experience/comment/opinion into a positive one (which didn't happen here) can get you customers, supporters, volunteers, etc. that will be loyal for life.

CBIF you've been great and very professional, but csweany is not helping your cause at all. Instead of admitting that a mistake was made in the marketing of this they continue to act like they have no idea why people are upset. And now the OP has put in print exactly what people are upset about. If your goal is to help all people with self image issues, then as one of the founders of the group, I would be very upset at that headline.

Posted 2 years ago #
berdawn
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CBIF wrote >>

berdawn wrote >>
CBIF, I really appreciate that you continue to follow this thread and respond so professionally. I used to work in non-profit and I would be happy to offer any input I can for your grants writer (or help someone find possible grants if they're not currently part of your fundraising strategy-I did not look for LY 990s, but it doesn't sound as though you'll have filed, yet). I'll pm you.

Hi Berdawn, we'd LOVE to have your input/help! Thanks for the offer, You're AWESOME!

Sent you a PM with my contact info.

Posted 2 years ago #